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boughtw/blood
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| 01/27/2009 8:12 PM |
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| I'm a young adult looking for a meaningful relationship. Everone i talk to tells me that my standards or expectations are too high. Is it too much to ask for to find a Christian man who has not had sex? I know that in this day and age that men like this are getting hard to come by but, come on! Am i being unreasonable? Tell me that i'm not the last virgin on earth. And one question for men: do you see virginity as a virtue anymore? |
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SewReba
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| 02/02/2009 8:33 PM |
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| Keep the hope! I married a virgin man. He hadn't even kissed a girl. Honestly, you are definitely looking for a rarer find but it is not hopeless. Also, for those who doubt he could be normal. He is. He was a 'nerd' in school, but I am so glad in some ways. He was a late bloomer and very intellegent, most girls wouldn't give him the time of day but even if they would have he would have thought they were just messing with him. He was skrawny then but now he is 6'1'' 200 lbs, very broad shoulders and a true man. He loves God and takes his position as our caregiver very personally. He works very hard, plays with our kids, sings to our little girl, challenges me to a higher standard than most people live. He isn't very social, I am, and that can be difficult on occassion. But overall, we compliment eachother. Pray, wait on the Lord and don't settle, God is preparing a husband for you and preparing you to be a suitable wife for him. Keep that in mind, continue drawing closer to God, do what's right and hard, allow the Lord to form you and present you worthy of a great man of God. I'll be praying for you sister. |
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Self discipline is what we need in order to do the things we must do so that we may have the things we say we want. -JM |
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iknowiam
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| 02/03/2009 2:14 PM |
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stop looking... haha i know it seems harsh but,,, i am a man that was a virgin -well i mentally and spiritually virgin, (i was molested and so on... long story) i havent even kissed a girl. when my wife had me, she was my first for everything... i sought after a wife, a friend forever, but when i stopped look and told God "im so frustrated with trying to finding a wife and a friend that will love me, im tired of looking, i give it too you, i trust you, allow me to have whoever you have for me" and have patience... they are out there...
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Marganit
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| 02/24/2009 2:55 PM |
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| Yes, there are people out there that value their virginity and are waiting for G-d's choice for him/her. I recommend listening to Dr. SM Davis on this topic of dating and betrothal. G-d *WILL* tell you whom you should marry! www.solvefamilyproblems.com is Dr. Davis' website. |
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Julie Fidler
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| 02/24/2009 11:12 PM |
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My sweet husband was a virgin.  They do exist!
But people also change. I hope you haven't closed your heart to someone who has learned from his mistakes. That was the case for me.
-Julie
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