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ahowardUser is Offline

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01/09/2009 2:06 PM  
My husband and I were seperated for two months due to many years of my not being the Godly wife I was destined to be.  I was controlling and nagging and disrespectful.  He pursued another woman and developed a new relationship eventuallly moving out.  During our seperation God showed me that I had wandered far from His plan for my life and had become selfish and was not living by the principles He designed for marriage.  I began to put those principles in to action and to show my husband that not only did I love him but I also respected him and HE was the number one prioprity in my life besides GOD.  He moved home and we are working on our marriage.  The problem is that sometimes I feel like he is not trying as hard as I am and that he is falling more out of love with me not more in love. 

Can anyone tell me some things I can do to encourage him and to help him fall back in love with me?  I truly am devoted, committed and in love with my husband, more today than 15 years ago when we married.  Please help me.

LisaUser is Offline

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01/09/2009 4:07 PM  

I am new to the teaching in this book as well. But I think that you and your husband have been given a real chance at love. I hope I will get the same chance soon. I moved out 8 months ago and just came to the books this past week. I am just now trying to save my marriage but know that in God's hands we have been given a gift. Hang in there.... Talk to him about what you wrote. Tell him what you need to feel loved by him. Pray together. I have asked for help on this website too. I have been waiting for someone to reply to my post as well. Maybe I was supposed to see your posting. God has just told me that Walking with him he will show us the way. Hope this helps you. God Bless you and your husband.

Lisa 

Desire1996User is Offline

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01/15/2009 11:51 PM  
I think this is the jackpot issue! What strategies do you use to fall in love again... or at least to try again...
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